Some evenings I found strength in myself and was able to tolerate the uncomfortable emotions he was experiencing without reacting. Ratione ipsa excepturi quae cum magnam quibusdam quos quam pariatur, libero veritatis aut harum, laborum similique optio natus, nulla possimus necessitatibus soluta! Addictive or otherwise, a person who chooses to alter their consciousness with substance abuse, whether alcohol or tobacco or benadryl, cocaine, ambien, or percocet is a person electing to live his or her life a certain way, and that way is in direct opposition to what the OP wants for herself " Guess what, use does not equate to abuse. I hope he doesn't change you. This lovely relationship we once had devolved to one of raw, dark emotions that neither of us really knew how to get a grip on. Yeah, it's "just weed," but every day? It's fun.
I had created some healthy habits for myself and was fully recovered from the eating disorder that had ruled my life for eight years prior.
How dating a drug addict helped me let go of my worries
About Contact Newsletter Terms Privacy. You need more patience, tolerance and love than ever. I used a lot of the same rationalizations that it sounds like your boyfriend is using and they were really only justifications for wanting to get stoned. My happiness is dependent on someone else doing something," explains Biester. I grew up in a family of problem drinkers and did, for a long time, have a sort of knee-jerkish response to people I cared about drinking around me.